Every other Saturday morning, I get together with a group of 4-5 men and talk about the Gospel. It’s one of the highlights of my week. For the past month, we’ve been working through The Gospel-Centered Life, a fantastic curriculum from the pens of Bob Thune and Will Walker. Last Saturday, we hit this part of Lesson #2:
Now, to reveal your tendency toward performance, pause and answer this question: As God thinks of you right now, what is the look on his face? Do you picture God as disappointed? Angry? Indifferent? Does his face say “Get your act together!” or “If only you could do a little more for me!” If you imagined God as anything but overjoyed with you, you have fallen into a performance mindset.”
After reading that, we wrestled for 30+ minutes with whether God was truly “overjoyed” with us. Most of us pictured God as a father or coach who wasn’t entirely happen. “If you could just get this thing straightened out…”, “Nice work, but try to get do this differently…”
Is God overjoyed with his children? If God judged us on our own righteousness, we’d fall short in both deed and character. In other words, if God’s love for and joy toward his children is based on their behavior and obedience, he will never be overjoyed. Our sin-stained behavior keeps us far from perfection. We will never be “good enough” to earn God’s approval. In fact, all our deeds are like filthy rags (Isaiah 64:6) and earn us God’s wrath (Ephesians 2:3). If everything was based on our performance, God would simply be the angry father who yells a lot and is never happy.
But here’s how Thune and Walker continue:
“Because the gospel truth is: In Christ, God is deeply satisfied with you. In fact, based on Jesus’ work, God has adopted you as his own son or daughter (Gal. 4:7)! But when we fail to root our identity in what Jesus has done for us, we slip into performance-driven Christianity.”
The Gospel changes everything. Through Christ’s substitutionary work, we are clothed in his righteousness and he took the punishment for our unrighteousness himself on the cross. Jesus took the guilt and gave us a new identity as God’s sons and daughters. Because Jesus’ work is sufficient and God is satisfied with it, he’s satisfied with those who put their trust in the work of his Son. We are no longer ultimately judged on our performance or righteousness, but on Jesus’ work.
I have four kids. My kids behave well at times and at other times they disobey. I correct their behavior, disciplining them when needed, and always praying their heart is continually shaped to love God. While I am by no means a perfect father, one thing that never changes is my heart toward my kids. I will always love them. I will always be glad that they are my sons and daughters. And it has absolutely NOTHING to do with their behavior. It is because I am their father and they are my children. Since they are in my family, my love for and joy in them will be there. Always.
Last night after dinner, we read the story of the Lost Son in The Jesus Storybook Bible (go buy a copy now if you don’t have it). The story is familiar. The younger son asks for his inheritance before Dad is in the ground, takes off, blows it on wine, women, and song, and winds up eating “piggy food” (in the words of Sally Lloyd-Jones). Realizing the error of his ways he returns home to beg Dad for a job as a servant.
But Dad’s been sitting on the front porch, waiting for his boy to return. Yes, his behavior is as bad as it can get. Yes, the relationship is seemingly as good as over. Yes, he’s out a third of his net worth because of a greedy, dishonoring son. But he’s waiting because it’s his son.
And when Junior shows up down the driveway, Dad runs to him, smothers him with culturally-inappropriate affection and throws a party. He’s OVERJOYED! Why? Is it because of his son’s behavior? No. It’s because this is his son.
When we return to God the Father by repenting of our sin and trusting in the work of Jesus, the Father will always be overjoyed with us. We will continue to battle indwelling sin and our Father will call us to change, but the blood of Jesus covers us, the stain is removed, and we are forgiven. The Father loves his wayward children. Many have said it: “There is nothing you can do to make God love you less and there is nothing you can do to make God love you more.”
Our obedience then flows out of a love for God. We don’t obey to earn God’s approval; we obey because God has approved of us in Christ. Tim Keller points this out often, calling it the difference between religion and the gospel. Religion says, “I obey; therefore, I am accepted.” The Gospel says, “I am accepted; therefore, I obey.”
Why do we struggle to see a God overjoyed to have his lost children reconciled to himself through the work of Jesus? We think we must earn it. We don’t understand the depths of the Gospel.
In the closing scenes of “Saving Private Ryan,” Tom Hanks’ character, Captain John Miller, has been fatally wounded, giving his life to save Matt Damon’s character, Private James Ryan. Grasping Ryan’s hand, he says, “James … earn this. Earn it.” The scene then cuts to an elderly James Ryan who, filled with doubt, asks his wife if he’s led a good life and is a “good man.” His life has been lived wondering if he’s performed “good enough” to earn the sacrifice of Capt. Miller and others.
Even if it was possible, we wouldn’t be able to earn the sacrifice of Jesus on our behalf. We live out of a gospel response, knowing that Jesus earned salvation for us. We don’t – and can’t – pay him back.
The Father is overjoyed with his children because his Son’s work is perfect, complete, sufficient, and eternal. Through the death and resurrection of Jesus, we’ve been brought into God’s family and he is overjoyed with that.